Because He Gets Me

Monday, November 26, 2007

10:57 AM - Because He Gets Me
Current mood: content
Category: Romance and Relationships

He really G E T S me. That's why I continue to love Mr. Waddles with every fiber of my being. We were talking last night about some of the things that have come up in the last year. He's a good listener and he doesn't mind it when I cry (okay, sob beyond belief) on the other end of the phone. I mentioned a conversation I'd had with someone regarding this one particular issue we've been dealing with. It's a pretty big thing and it's cost us a lot of grief over it. So this individual says something along the lines of, "when do you just get over it?" Thank God I was already pretty high on my Lexapro (it being Thanksgiving and expecting a housefull I'd already popped three by noon) because I would've completely come unglued on her ass. It's not something that either one of us will ever get over. We might get past it, but we'll never truly get over it. So anyway, it being the one year mark of the beginning of the event Jim was checking with me to make sure I was handling everything okay and to see how I was coping. I told him the remark that was made and he let me know that he doesn't expect me to be able to just get over it and that he's there whenever I need him and that he understands if it takes me a lot longer to figure out my feelings and emotions... And that includes unlimited crying time, whenever, wherever... can I get a collective "Awwwwww" for the world's most perfect man? :)